New Year Resolutions that work

New Year Resolutions that work

Are you making a resolution in the New Year? Warning: More than half of all resolutions fail, but this year, they don’t have to be yours. Here’s how to identify the right resolution to improve your life, create a plan on how to reach it, and become part of the small group of people that successfully achieve their goal.
Pick the Right Resolution
You’ll give yourself your best shot at success if you set a goal that’s doable — and meaningful too. A lot of resolutions fail because they’re not the right resolutions. And a resolution may be wrong for one of three main reasons:
● It’s a resolution created based on what someone else (or society) is telling you to change.
● It’s too vague.
● You don’t have a realistic plan for achieving your resolution.
Your goals should be smart — and SMART. This is a short form of Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Time-bound. This has been seen to work in business management, but it can also work in setting your resolutions, too.
Specific. Your resolution should be absolutely clear. “Making a concrete goal is really important rather than just vaguely saying ‘I want to lose weight. You want to have a goal: How much weight do you want to lose and at what time interval. Five kilos in the next two months — that’s going to be more effective.
Measurable. This may seem obvious if your goal is a fitness or weight loss related one, but it’s also important if you’re trying to cut back on something, too. If, for example, you want to stop alcohol intake. It helps if you keep a record of the number of drinks a day and the actual reduction over the days, eventually weeks and finally months.
Achievable. This doesn’t mean that you can’t have big stretch goals. But trying to take too big a step too fast can leave you frustrated, or affect other areas of your life to the point that your resolution takes over your life — and both you and your friends and family flail. So, for example, resolving to save enough money to retire in five years when you’re 30 years old is probably not realistic, but saving an extra Rs. 10000 a month may be.
Relevant. Is this a goal that really matters to you, and are you making it for the right reasons? If you do it out of the sense of self-hate or remorse or a strong passion in that moment, it doesn’t usually last long. But if you build up a process where you’re thinking harder about what’s good for you, you’re changing the structure of your life, you’re bringing people into your life who will reinforce that resolution, and then you have a fighting chance.
Time-bound. Like “achievable,” the timeline toward reaching your goal should be realistic, too. That means giving yourself enough time to do it with lots of smaller intermediate goals set up along the way. Focus on these small wins so you can make gradual progress. If you’re building a habit, you’re planning for the next decade, not the next couple of months.